Leveling up in the game of life

Approximately five years ago, I heard my first DING and I was hooked.  I was a level 2 mage.  In real life (henceforth known as IRL), I was a 130lbs scrawny twink.  If you fast forward five years, I now have a lvl 85 mage, a level 85 druid, and my favorite toon (pictured to the left): a level 85 holy priest, now a goblin, at item level, or ilvl, 380).  I am talking about World of Warcraft.

While I play other games, WoW dominates my gaming experience.  In the five years that have followed from that scrawny boy I once was, I have to say that I am now a bit more rotund (185 lbs and sincerely out of shape). 

Although people may look at me and see someone who has his act together, I’m still very much a newbie.  From here on out, I no longer consider myself a high level raider.  I am a noob.  I am in the starting zone.

The challenge is to level up.  I am level 1.  I will reach level 40.  At level 40, I will be in great shape.  My coordination, my stamina, my flexibility, my body fat percentage will be significantly improved.  I will eat healthier and cook regular meals.  I will wake up on time and no longer scare the hell out of my SO with an insanely loud alarm clock. 

I will document my challenges here, starting with the sacrifice and ultimate prize: a nice big slice of cake.  I will fight for that cake.  Stay tuned.  The challenge is starting soon.  In my next post, I’m going to roll my character and show you all what I’m working with.

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My new WoW UI

 

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New York State passes marriage equality!!!!

imageIn a vote of 33 to 29, the NYS Senate has passed marriage equality with the added religious protection provisions introduced today.  The NYS Assembly has to vote on the new language, practically guaranteed to pass, and then to the governor’s desk to sign into law.  New York State will soon take its place among the states who embrace full equality and fair treatment for all citizens.  It is a good day in New York State!!!

Update:

This means so much to me, that my home state has finally embraced the very same mindset of fair treatment and equality that my new home state embraces.  I am so proud of New York State and her politicians for doing the right thing.  It can now be said that equality will reign in the greatest city on earth.

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National Organization for Marriage’s Hate Board

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We’ve all seen this picture.  I’m not attributing it to the mostly uninformed opinion of some of NOM’s followers, but when it comes to their online user base, it is mostly clear that their entire platform is based on a deep-seeded animus and religiously inspired malice towards LGBT men and women, rank with stereotypes, prejudice, elitism, and desire to reduce us to less-than citizens.  After reading these, leave a comment and tell me your story.

Here are some examples from their blog that shine light on the true feelings of NOM and her supporters:

Alesi’s a homosexual, as far as I can figure. Can’t find any info on his ever having a wife. You’re asking for a RINO if you vote for a “Republican” candidate, especially at his age, without a wife. More homosexual infiltration into positions of power; they have no family responsibilities, so they have the time to devote to their screwed up causes. – Mike Brooks

SSM breaks the procreative link between marriage and procreation. It cheapens it by equating sodomy – the only kind of sex that homosexuals can perform and which creates nothing, nada, zippo. – Mike Brooks

Homosexuality is all about sex, not relationships. – Mike Brooks

“Monogamous homosexual” is an oxymoron. – Mike Brooks

Because there are rich homosexuals and friends, this means the laws they want for themselves is a direct result of the amount of cash they can use to bribe politicians. – John Noe

Blacks cannot change the color of their skin but [gays] can change [their] sexual preference.  If [gays] insist on behaving a certain way then [they] must accept the consequences. – John Noe

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Black sheep in the culture of marriage

imageWhen it comes to marriage equality for gay couples in America, it should come as no surprise that the vast majority of opposition arises from religious or pseudo-religious sentiment – inspired by scriptural and dogmatic teachings in three major world religions: Christianity, Judaism, and Islam.  That is not to say that folks of other religious backgrounds – Hinduism/Buddhism/paganism/Atheism – don’t possess smaller amounts of opposition to marriage equality.  They do.  In most cases, however, there is a strong historical argument that can be made showing opposition from these religions stem from cultural osmosis during times of British/Christian imperialism.  It is obvious when studying history that LGBT men and women aren’t the first group of people to encounter the very same sort of opposition: being labeled a black sheep in cultures and societies that they were born into.  This is a long post.  There is a request at the bottom.  If you do not wish to read the full post, please read and respond to the request at the very end.

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Join Louis J. Marinelli’s Marriage Equality Campaign

Louis J. Marinelli, once a supporter and strategist of the National Organization for Marriage, has through much discussion and interaction with LGBT Americans (myself included) had a wonderful and beautiful change of heart. 

 

 

 

He is in the process of launching a nation-wide Marriage Equality tour.  Please visit and support his cause.  He is in the process of undoing a great deal of damage and is becoming a wonderful ally.

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Response to NOM blog comment on gay men and women being a “behavioral minority”.

 

From a NOM blog post

Bman,

Can you concede a little bit on your post?  I am a gay man.  By that I mean I possess (and have since puberty possessed) both an emotional and physical attraction to the same gender.  I so happen to be in love with another man.  He is the most important person in my life and I would gladly sacrifice of myself for his safety and well being. 

To have that reduced to “behavior” because others would judge and belittle me (such as Randy, who reduces my love to “depravity”) is both deeply offensive and very very personal.

I am lucky enough to live in Boston where my boyfriend and I can (and will) gather our friends and family together and celebrate our love for one another, become husbands to one another, and form a family.  Sometimes, however, I feel as though the amount of hostility and adversity the two of us face, particularly outside of the Boston area, is akin to the Salem witch trials where, even though we are good and honest, hardworking men, we are targeted with such hostility and even violence that we experience a guilty until proven innocent mob.

You can accept, then, why gay men and women are leery when it comes to being open and honest around Christian men and women.  There is a long history of discrimination and violence we face simply because we love and we love in a way that some religions preach is “against the very fabric of nature”.

Note of point: I am not an atheist.  I do not, however, believe that a divine being would give me this wonderful, beautiful capacity to love and then turn around and say that I will burn for eternity for loving.

I digress.  My love for my boyfriend is way beyond behavior.  There is not a single part of me that looked at him the first time we met and chose to feel how I do.

You talk about men who have sex with men.  Funny how you fail to mention women who have sex with women.  What about men who love men?  Can you still play the behavior card there?

Regards,

RJ

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Would you or would you not get this?

I want this to be my design piece for my new apartment Smile

I’m moving into a new space and there is so much potential.  I’ve decided for a more minimalist, bronze-age design.  Brown leather couch, bar table, some wall decor, and covering up some hideous white kitchen cabinets with some linen I’ve yet to pick out.  Oh… and I’m going to buy this garden gnome.

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Watch ‘Britain’s Got Talent’ Edward Reid Nursery Rhymes

Awesomely entertaining.

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“Hir” poem about Transgendered youth

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